Who Am I ??

Who Am I?? It is very important that we ask ourselves this question. Many people don’t care about asking this question to themselves. They take it for granted. Others who ask are struggling in their lives. There are really fewer people who know the importance of this question. So guys, if I ask you to define yourself in some lines, what will be your answer?? U will say your name, your favorite color, your hobbies, your favorite food, etc. But that is not an accurate answer to this question. In this blog, we will discuss what it means to know oneself and how to answer the question WHO AM I.

It is important that we observe ourselves all the time, analyze our experiences from time to time, check our expectations from ourselves, etc. It is important for us to understand ourselves. We should know how are we physically, mentally, intellectually and socially. It is important to know ourselves before knowing anyone else. We should see in ourselves before pointing towards others.

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Importance of Knowing Oneslef

  • Knowing ourselves will help us know our strengths and we will be able to enhance it
  • It will help us know our weaknesses and we will be able to minimize it.
  • We will be able to understand our vulnerabilities.
  • It will help us making efforts for making positive changes in ourselves.
  • Knowing ourselves will help in personal growth and development.
  • It will help us in reaching our full potentail.
Who am I,

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Some Questions That Will Help You In Knowing Yourself

Ask these questions to yourself. It may not be easy to find answers to all at first but as you get to know yourself, you will be able to answer. These questions will definitely help you to know yourself.

  • Meaning of your name: It is not a very difficult question, right. Many people don’t know the meaning of their name. So firstly, you should know the meaning of your name.
  • When you feel happy/sad: Ask yourself what makes you happy/sad. When are you happy/sad or with whom.
  • What you like about yourself: Ask yourself the things you like about yourself.
  • Things you don’t like about youself: Ask yourself the things you don’t like about yourself.
  • Things you are afraid of: Ask yourself about the things that scare you or the things you are afraid of.
  • Analyze your strengths: Analyze the things which you are good at.
  • Analyze your weaknesses: Analyze the things you need to improve.
  • Ambitions: Ask yourself about our ambitions in life, what you expect of yourself, what you want to become, etc.
  • Principles: It is a very important question to ask yourself what principles you have in your life. It is very important to have principles in life.
Who Am I

After asking all these questions to yourself, I hope you will be able to know yourself. I hope I was able to help you all. You can also right the answers of these questions on a paper so that in future you can refer to them.

Personality Development: An Important Aspect Of Life

Before understanding how to develop a personality, we should know what is personality. Personality is the combination of qualities and characteristics that makes you, you. It is a characteristic set of behaviors, cognitions, and emotional patterns on which depends how we react to a situation. We all have a set of good and bad personality traits that define us. Now, let us talk about personality development.

It is very important to understand the importance of a marvelous personality. It has a huge impact on us. We should try to be our best at all times. A good personality will help in doing so.

Personality Development: An Important Aspect Of Life

Tips for Personality Development

  • Don’t compare yourself with others: You demoralize yourself by comparing yourself to others. It will harm you. You should be proud of yourselves as there is no one like you. Don’t compare yourself because if you do so it is like insulting yourself.
  • Don’t be harsh to yourself: Sometimes we are very harsh with ourselves. The rules we make for ourselves are not genuine. So, we should stop this.
  • Good Communication Skills: It is important to have good communication skills. This will help in winning people. It is important to have clarity in talks.
  • Be optimistic: It is important to be optimistic (be positive). This will help you in analyzing things in a good manner. Difficulties may come, but it very important that we never let go of our optimism,
  • Believe in yourself: Believe in yourself that you can achieve anything you desire. Don’t ever let anyone undermine you.
Personality Development: An Important Aspect Of Life
  • Do not overthink: You should not overthink about anything. Don’t let negativity block your path.
  • Accept yourself: Accept yourself the way you are. Don’t be jealous of someone. You are THE BEST.
  • Help Others: Helping others will enhance your personality. Be a bigger person and help others instead of harming them.

Importance of Personality Development

  • Most imporantlu, it helps an individual to grow.
  • It will help you gain self-confidence.
  • You will be able to realize self-worth.
  • It will help you in maintaining a positive attitude towards life.
  • It will help you to inculcate great qualities like punctuality, etc.
  • Having a good personality will help in reducing stress.
Personality Development: An Important Aspect Of Life

Gender Equality

Gender equality, also known as sexual equality, is the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender, including economic participation and decision-making. Gender equality (equality between men and women) entails the concept that all human beings, both men and women, are free to develop their personal abilities and make choices without the limitations set by anyone.

There is no doubt that world is making progress towards gender equality, but still women and girls are suffering from a lot of discrimination and violence. The condition is better in urban areas if we compare them to that of rural areas. I, myself being a girl can understand how it feels when you are treated equally. I always got a lot of opportunities but there are many girls who were deprived of even the basic needs.

(It is written that we give our lives or we love other’s daughter but we kill our own.)

In some places female foeticide is very common. Many people will think that how female foeticide is a matter of gender equality as it is a matter of women empowerment. I say it is a matter of gender equality too. One thing I am not able to understand that everyone wants wife and a mother but no one wants a daughter. People want a female gynae but don’t want to educate their daughter.

Generally I write in English, but today I have written something in Hindi (Transaltions are there). I have written something in HINDI.

“Yun toh sab kehte hai ki ladkiyan ladkon se kam hai,

Par koi mujhe yeh btaye ki ladkon main kis baat ka dum hai.

Aise toh kayi kaam hai jo ladkiyan kar sakti hai par ladke nhi,

Par koi mujhe woh kaam btaye jo ladke kar sakte hai par ladkiyan nhi.”

– Avni Jain

Translation: People always say that girls are weak, but can someone tell me why boys consider themselves strong. There is plenty of work that women can do but men can’t, but can someone tell me something that men can do but women can’t.

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I am not at all against boys. I have my father and my brother. There is complete respect for boys. It is for those who consider girls are less than boys and consider them as a liability.

Effective Communication Skills

In my last blog, I told u the value of communication in every relationship. We also talked about steps of how to improve communication in a relationship. Now, let’s learn about communication skills and what do we mean by effective communication skills.

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Effective communication skills are fundamental to success in almost all aspects of life.  Many jobs require strong communication skills and people with good communication skills usually have better relationships.

Effective Communication Skills

Types Of Communication

  • Verbal Communication: Verbal communication is the use of sounds and words to express yourself, especially in contrast to using gestures or manners.
  • Nonverbal Communication: Nonverbal communication includes facial expressions, the tone and pitch of the voice, gestures displayed through body language (kinesics) and the physical distance between the communicators.
  • Visual Communication: Visual communication is the conveyance of ideas and information in forms that can be seen. Visual communication in part or whole relies on eyesight.
  • Written Communication: Written communication involves any type of message that makes use of the written word.Written communication is the most important and the most effective of any mode of businesscommunication.
Effective Communication Skills

Hurdles Of Effective Communication

  • Judging the Other Person: If you judge the person while talking to him/her, you can never have an effective conversation with him/her. Basically, you can never understand them.
  • Stress or over-emotional: When you are very stressed or overwhelmed with emotions then you may misunderstand the other person.
  • Lack of focus: When you lack in focus or attention towards the other person or you are multitasking or you are mentally absent, you can never have an effective communication.
  • Negative Body Language: If you are not interested in what the other person is saying, you may use negative body language. This may be like crossing arms, avoiding eye contact, etc.

Effective Communication Skills

  • Active Listening: When the other person is speaking, we should listen to that person. We should be mentally present and be a good listenener.
  • Understand Other Person: When we are talking to someone, we always wish or want the other person to understand us. This is the truth. So we should do the same that we expext. We sould try to understand the other person.
  • Minimize Stress: If we are stressed, then we should try to minimize our stress as we know if we are stressed, we may misunderstand the other person. If the other person is stressed, we should help him out too.
Effective Communication Skills
  • Complain When Necessary: Some people have a habit of complaining always. This can really be bad for you. One should not always be complaining. Complain when it is necessary.
  • Be Clear: When you are speaking, try to br clear. Don’t beat around the bush. Be as clear as you can.
  • Have A Positive Attitude: Always remember to have a positive attitude. This attitude can help one a lot. Having a positive attitude towards everything is very difficult i know, but atleast we can try. Also, have a smile on your face. It gives you energy.

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  • Feedback: When the other person has told u, then tell them how you feel about it. Give them a feedback.

Communication in Relationships

Before starting to know about communication in relationships, let us first focus on the term “communication”. So what all of u mean by communication. Some may think that communication means talking, some may think it means telling, etc. None of u will be completely wrong but this term has a wider meaning. Communication means the imparting or exchanging of information by speaking, writing, or using some other medium. Now let us come to communication in relationships.

Communication in Relationships

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How To Conquer Fear

Fear is one of very strong emotions. It has a very strong effect on our mind as well as our body. Fear is something that holds millions of people back from growing and being successful in life as all have a fear of something. Some have a fear that they may fail, some have a fear of trying new things and so on. It is very important for all of us to understand that if we will not conquer it, it is going to take a lot of opportunities from us. So here we will see How To Conquer Fear.

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9 Ways to Combat Procrastination

Procrastination is a word which a very few may have listened but almost all of us have gone through it. Procrastination is basically the act of delaying something. It is putting off or delaying some important tasks and doing nothing or doing something less important. Here we are going to discuss 9 Ways to Combat Procrastination. By Combat Procrastination, we mean the actions that can be taken to reduce it.


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9 Ways Of How To Stay Motivated At Work When You Find It Difficult

There are basically two kinds of people in the world: first are the ones who find it easy to be focused and motivated at work and second are the ones who find it difficult to be focused and motivated at work. So here are 9 Ways Of How To Stay Motivated At Work When You Find It Difficult for the ones who are not able to so. They will definitely help you be motivated while at work if you decide to practice them.

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How Can I Build Self Confidence

In today’s world where everything is moving too fast, it is really important for all of us to understand that confidence is a very important tool if we want to gain success. To understand this, first of all, we should know what is confidence. Confidence is basically trustworthiness. It is a belief in something or someone. It gives us the power to conquer the world. Now its time to learn how can I build self-confidence.
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Peer Pressure And Bullying

Peers are the people with whom we socialize. They can our friends, the people we work with, etc. They are basically the people with whom we share some interests. Peer Pressure is when we are influenced by other people (mainly, our peers) to act in a certain way or to do something. Nowadays, many people (including adults) fall prey to negative peer pressure. Continue reading “Peer Pressure And Bullying”